Love is probably the topic that most tarot readers – and indeed, all psychic readers – spend most of their time answering questions about. It is only natural that we as humans want to connect to others, and yet so many find it a struggle.
With divination techniques like the tarot, the complicated knot of relationships can be untangled, somewhat. Tarot, rather than telling the future, provides clarity and insight to the moment, and offers a more zoomed-out perspective of the bigger picture.
Let’s dive in to more about love tarot readings, and what they have to offer you and your love life.
Most tarot readers will pull a number of cards and lay them out in a spread. Each placement in the spread will be meaningful – for instance, in a past/present/future spread, the first card represents the past, the middle card represents the present, and the final card represents the future.
Readers can use established spreads, or come up with their own. In general, the larger the spread and the more cards pulled, the more in-depth the reading will be; although each tarot card has so many layers of meaning that a simple 3-card reading could be just as in-depth.
In a love reading, like any tarot reading, the question you ask is very important. Don’t overthink your precise wording, as it is often the case that the cards will tell you what you want to know even if you weren’t able to make yourself clear (it happens more often than you think!). Here are a few examples of good questions to ask:
There are many factors that go into relationships and many questions that can arise where a tarot reading might be helpful. Here are a few situations where it is appropriate to seek out a love tarot reading.
Putting out feelers for a new relationship. If you’ve been single for some time and are ready to start looking for love, a tarot reading to help clarify the type of relationship you’re looking for – and what you want to avoid – can be a great help.
Perspective on your current relationship. Oftentimes in a relationship, you are too close to the situation to get a good perspective on it. A tarot reading can help you gain perspective if you are feeling unsatisfied for some reason, and help you put a point on why, and what to do about it. You’ll probably find that you already knew the answer the tarot gave – it has a way of telling us what we already know, but perhaps aren’t yet ready to admit to ourselves.
Self-Reflection. Your relationship with yourself is the most important one you’ll nurture throughout your life. A tarot reading can help you find the parts you love most about yourself and how to bring that forward to attract a partner.
It’s not always appropriate to turn to the tarot when you have a question. Here are a few situations where a tarot reading might not be the most helpful.
Predicting the outcome of a relationship. Say you just met someone you like, or committed to a relationship. You might feel the urge to ask the tarot what the outcome of this relationship will be. However, it is always best to let relationships play out in real time. Don’t do yourself a disservice by reading the ending of the book before you even start.
Finding out the feelings or motivations of another person. Keep your questions for the tarot centered on yourself and the things you can be doing to attract love or be a better partner. Asking for a psychic lens into another’s heart is a low vibrational practice that can sow discord further down the line. As much as our culture shies away from it, direct communication with our romantic partners is always the best way to find out their feelings and motivations.
Directly after a breakup. In this case – to ask if your lover will return. It is best to let the dust – and your emotions – settle before consulting a love tarot reader about a possible reconciliation. You might want it in the moment, and then find that a breakup was the best thing that could’ve happened. Approaching the tarot with strong, unsteady emotions can confuse the message.
When you can, it is always best to seek out a tarot reader on a psychic platform who is a specialist in matters of love and relationships. Their experience in interpreting the cards with love and partnership in mind will be valuable in getting you the answers you are searching for.
Luckily, that shouldn’t be hard – love is by far the most popular topic on psychic platforms! For more tips, check out our article all about How To Receive the Best Online Tarot Reading.
When you decide to get a love tarot reading, you are putting an intention into the universe of receiving and giving love in a healthy way, with the fullness of your heart. This is the very first step to finding the love you have always dreamed of.
A love tarot reading can be the key to unlocking the next chapter in your love story. Are you ready to begin?
A tarot reader, astrologer, and witch. She is a guest on the land of the Cowlitz and Clackamas nations, so-called Portland, OR. Amber was gifted her first tarot deck at the age of 10, and has been studying ever since. She is a graduate of the Portland School of Astrology, the only full-term astrology school in the country. When not reading tarot and astrology, she is a production assistant for an elevated wellness company. She is an indie perfume and scented candle enthusiast, and in her free time enjoys playing ukulele, waterfall hiking and creek-jumping, hanging out with her black cat, Winnie, and napping. She is currently trying to perfect the art of doing absolutely nothing.
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